Thursday, July 21, 2011

We cuddled whole night but didn't have sex... anything might be wrong?

I have a boyfriend with whom we just recently started to have intimate relationship. We usually manage to meet up twice/thrice a week, so it seems like we would want to take advantage of that time. However, last time we met, he just asked me to lay with him in bed and we spent whole time like this - caressing, massaging, kissing, talking, laughing, everything in a very relaxed and cheerful way... but he didn't really show any willingness to go beyond that. Might this be a sign that he doesn't enjoy having sex with me? Or it happens with guys sometimes that you are just not in the mood to do things???? The reason i am asking is that he is my first man, which means i am not that experienced in bed, so i thought this might have put him away? This is the first time it happened, but i am not sure why, maybe it might have been better to ask him directly if anything was wrong? - -your feedback will be much appreciated!

Should i see go to the er for a toothache?

Ive been having a really bad tooth ache for about a week now and i havent been able to sleep because of it. ive also tryed everything from orajel to home remeedies. Its starting to hurt so bad. i havent took and advil or tyenol because i dont have any or no anyone that has any at this hour. what can doctors do at the e.r and is there anything i can do to try and wait to see my faimly doctor tomorrow??

Does it sound like I might have a blood clot? please read, I'm freaking out!?

Well yesterday morning I woke up at about 6 and I had this excrutiating pain under my left breast in the top of my ribs. I thought it was just gas but the pain hurt sooo bad and felt like it was going up by my heart and my shoulder. I was also extremely and oddly gassy the whole day yesterday. The ER told me that it sounded like I could have possibly had a blood clot or inflammation. They gave me an EKG which was normal, then said they wanted to check my blood for a blood clot and I freaked out and refused cause I'm scared of bad news AND the pain went away. Since the pain went away and I was extremely gassy (and still are for some reason) do you think the pain was linked to gas? Does it sound like the pain was due to a blood clot?? I'm also 21.

I am military and have been dealing with pain from two bulging discs in my lower back since Easter.?

First it started with a numb leg with sharp shooting pains and tingling and pain, then my foot started hurting when input pressure on it, the military sent me to a neurologist that said I have meragia prosthetica which is associated with obesity (I'm 110 lbs) pregnancy and diabetes which I don't have and sent mr for an MRI. MRI showed slight bulge in l4 l5 and l5 s1 which wasn't significant enough to do anything about. Since then it's gotten so much worse my back is killing me feels like a truck has ran over me. They next sent me to pain mngmnt which said he couldn't diagnose me and that I needed a full neurological work up so I went back to base and they out in a referral to a teaching hospital which needed two weeks to decide I'f they would even take me so then I went back to dr on base and found out they denied me, so now my dr on base says he don't know what to do that I need to find a neurologist and he'd out the federal in for me. I'm at my wits end and in extreme amount of pain they won't give me any meds since I had disc fusion in dec and have been on lortab since which don't work at all and I feel like the military isn't helping me. I can barely walk can't work lost my job over this can hardly make my bills and don't know what to do! Please help! What can I do next, I'm a military dependent and I don't know where else to go went to er twice and they won't do anything either just sent me away. I just need out of pain. I can't sleep I'm starting to get ( sorry graphic) constipated now and I'm totally lost I think it's gotten worse but they won't do another MRI. Please any advise would help thanks

My dad dislikes my mom and it makes me sad?

Your dad is a jerk and he needs to shut up and stop whining about his marital problems with his kid. Tell him to get a shrink.

What kind of guitar should I buy?

Right now I've got a George Washburn festival series acoustic guitar, that's about all I know. I don't like the style of the body at all, and I'm new to guitar so I can't describe what style it is, but I would prefer a different style. I don't like the tone that it has when I'm playing. Also the mike inside moves around a lot and makes an unpleasant tapping noise. The strings also rattle a little bit when I play. So what is a reasonably priced guitar with a good full sound?

Smokers (nonsmokers can weigh in, too), would you consider it rude/offensive?

I am an ex-smoker and I would not have considered it rude when I was smoking. It's quite right for a child to make such a statement and quite right for a parent to acknowledge that they are correct. It would not matter if the parent apologized for the child. If the parent did choose to do so, I would hope that it happened out of earshot of the child.