Thursday, July 21, 2011

How many electrolytes are you supposed to have? ?

I was recently admitted to the ER for cardiac arrest caused by low electrolytes and dehydration. They wouldn't tell me anything when I asked them stuff because I'm only 16 and I guess they think I'm not important enough to know. Anyway, I saw the numbers where they had my electrolytes and found the numbers 2, 9, 13, and 3. How many are you supposed to have?

Problem with daughter in law?

I am devastated and need to share my story and seek advise . About two years ago after knowing his girlfriend for only 2 weeks my son went on a holiday with my husband and my daughter to Europe and staid in touch with his girlfriend On a day he returned I arranged party and she was there too beautiful and lovely and they wore so cute together it was a pleasure seeing them together after that she often staid in our house the night and some times even for few day we all adored her then about four weeks later they told us she was pregnant and even thought we felt he was too young only just turned 18 day before his return from Europe we wore supportive and she was also only just over a year older then him but still too young and we felt they don't know each other well enough we decided that we will support them after all we love our son and we will do anything for him , we wore going to be grandparents , maybe sooner then we expected but with our support we thought our son and his girlfriend will be able to still finish university. My shows up with her soon after saying her mum kicked her out of home and she has no where to stay could she stay with as for a little while till she figures out what to do . My husband and I agreed and the same day she moved in . I felt so sorry for her what she told me about her mum and family in general I just wanted to give her as much love and attention to at least try to make her feel better . She was kind and friendly we accepted her us our own . Sadly they lost the baby and it was just sad and unpleasant time for all and most of all for her . No long after we had my cousin and her husband move in with us and my sons girlfriend still friendly with as became more and more sad , She still complained about her family that wore giving her hard time she left school saying she only did that because her mum wanted her to be a nurse she wanted something else she didn't want to live her mum's dream . I loved her and was feeling great sadness for her her according to her story everyone gave her hard time disrespected her ,gave her hard time . She didn't know her father she wanted to write to him but didn't know how and was worried he will ignore or refuse her . My home was fool of people and all I did was cook clean after everyone go to work come home and it wasn't easy she was sad now all the time I was there for her even thought at times it was all too much for me I was there for them . My cousin cooked 5 times in three moths she lived with as my daughter in law 4 times in eight moths that she lived with as . and even when they were cooking it was after me to serve and wash up no one ever did anything and I newer complained I simply sometimes had to live some work for next day or just do things at night . When she was sad and crying my son would come to me asking to please talk to her I always left everything as I would for any of my kids to talk to her . Then I noticed that more and more often she stays in their room when my son is not there but when with us she would still be sweet and polite so I assumed she has problems with her mum , she has started seeing her mum and other family again by that time but was still complaining about them allot I was there when she wanted to talk but when she closes her self in a room or it didn't seem to me as she is willing to talk after I asked if everything is OK I backed off just as I do with my own kids thinking she will talk if she needs to . First valentines day I paid for a weekend away for her and my son and that morning before leaving for work I left box of chocolates for them she sent message when she woke up to me saying how lucky they both are to have me and my husband in their life and how she wishes her family is more like that . I remember thinking after reading that sms how lucky I am I already have three perfect children and now my future daughter in law so kind and lovely as well all hard work didn't seem so bad . Little did I know that all this time wile I was thinking how perfect everything was she has capt my son up late most of the night crying she wanted to move out weekend way that I arranged for then she used to fight with him for not wanting to move out , my son was worried he did have a job but since he is so young his pay is only small he didn't feel his ready at home they had free food free roof over their had what they earn was for their own pleasure he wanted to enjoy that as long as possible . Then one day he told as that his living we said you not a prisoners here if you want to move out fine if it doesn't work you can always come back but seeing him cry I we also said you don't have to it is up to you . We wore sad but we help them . But she changed from that tha

What do these symptoms tell?

i've been sick about a week. i went to the doctor thrice now. i have a terrible cold along with cough. im not running a temperature though. and i have reddish bumps on my face and arms. sometimes my neck and the back hurt. my eye lids get swollen, along with my face :(

I really need someones opinion can anyone help me?

i dont know where my question went i just started using this tonight but my name is Andie and im 5-6 weeks pregnant and today i woke up with bleeding,slight cramping,and clots so i rushed to the er.They did an ultrasound and the fetus was there and the yok sac was normal but i had an elongated sac and it was low...there was no heartbeat yet but they said im really early to tell but they said it could be a start of a miscarriage but they are not sure so i have to go to my doctor to get a 2nd u/s.but with the bleeding and cramping it makes me worry but im praying everything is ok and hopefully it turns around but if anyone has gone through this o knows whats going on plz let me kno thank you!

New-er tongue piercing?

i got my tongue pierced 10 days ago. it was hell the first like 6 days but its all good now, the swelling has come down mostly all of the way. it doesnt hurt at all anymore and the long bar is getting uncomfortable. just wondering how soon i can change to the shorter bar

When I get sad/depressed I get bad headaches?

Not always. It takes a lot for me to get headaches. For example; whenever I talk to my boyfriend, who is suicidal, and he's in a bad mood, I feel so bad it physically and emotionally hurts. This is gonna sound cheesy, but it's not me really feeling the pain for myself, it's feeling it for him. It's unpleasant, but the whole time I just worry about HIM and it's like he's my other half, and I'm just experiencing his pain. It's sooo hard to explain, you probably won't get it. I get all choked up, my chest gets heavy and it's hard to breath, and I get bad headaches that only go away with medication and I cry. The same thing happens when I get really frustrated, too. I looked this up for a while and it seems I'm alone in this. Has anyone else experienced this, or is there something wrong with me?

Can i join the army if i cant salute?

Ok so you are all probably wondering why i cant salute. well i shell tell you ok so when i was 15 years old i was chasing my little bro down drive way at full speed and at the time we had a big storage room with really cheep windows and i mean if you hit it with a pebble they would shatter into thousands of peaces or if you slammed the door hard enough the window would brake so any way back to the story my little bro ran in to that storage room and slammed the door in my face so my reaction was to put my right hand out to stop myself from running into the door but my hand missed the frame and went through the window at first i thought i was ok but then i saw my bro just standing there shaking saying your wrist your wrist so i look down just to see i had just cut my arteries,nerves and tendons so after being brought to the ER and haveing 5 surgery's and 11/2 years of physical therapy i finely was able to use my hand agen but the only thing i cant do is move my fingers sideways and the doc said they did all they can do for me. So do i have to be able to solute in order to join the military. ps this is not a joke so please do not joke around this is my dream i want to serve.